They Profit From Your Loneliness
- Gareth Sidwell
- Sep 7
- 2 min read
Your insecurity is their business model.
Every manosphere guru selling you the "alpha mindset" needs you to stay broken. Think about it. If their advice actually worked, you'd stop buying their courses.
The math is simple. Healed men don't generate recurring revenue.
So they keep you angry. They feed you enemies. Women become the problem. Society becomes the villain. Everyone else gets the blame while you get another $997 course that promises everything and delivers nothing.
We see this pattern everywhere in the manosphere space.
The same influencers telling you to "be alpha" are the ones selling you step-by-step programs on how to become alpha. The contradiction should be obvious. Real confidence doesn't come with a payment plan.
Here's what they're actually selling you: A perpetual state of inadequacy wrapped in motivational language.
They profit from keeping you in the cycle. Angry at women. Frustrated with life. Convinced that the next course, the next mindset shift, the next guru will finally unlock your potential.
At Mensano, we do something different.
We don't sell you courses. We don't promise overnight transformations. We don't tell you how to be a man.
We create space for you to figure it out yourself.
Our peer-led groups and coaching sessions focus on one thing: authentic exploration of who you want to become. Without the anger. Without the enemies. Without the monthly subscription to someone else's version of masculinity.
The men we work with aren't looking for another guru. They're looking for honest conversation about real challenges. Mental health struggles. Relationship difficulties. Career frustrations. The kind of problems that require community support, not another online course.
We believe all men can change. But change happens through connection, not consumption.
The manosphere wants you to believe that masculinity is something you buy, something you perform, something you prove to the world. We think masculinity is something you explore, something you define for yourself, something you live authentically.
The choice is yours.
You can keep feeding the machine that profits from your pain. Or you can try a different approach.
One that sees your struggles as human experiences worth exploring, not market opportunities worth exploiting.
The conversation starts when you're ready.



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